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INTERNAL FAMILY SYSTEMS (IFS) AT ATTUNIGRATE

Internal Family Systems is an evidence‑based psychotherapy that views the mind as an “inner family” of parts -- protectors, exiles, managers -- each carrying its own memories and motives. Instead of silencing these voices, IFS helps you build a trusting relationship with them so your core Self can lead with clarity and calm. Developed by Dr. Richard C. Schwartz in the 1980s, IFS has been shown to reduce symptoms of trauma, anxiety, and depression by fostering internal harmony rather than self‑critique.

How an IFS Session Unfolds

  1. Set the Stage – brief grounding to notice sensations and emotional “weather.”

  2. Meet the Parts – gently identify the thoughts, images, or body cues of one part asking for attention.

  3. Unblend & Befriend – create respectful distance so you (the Self) can listen without judgment.

  4. Witness & Release – allow the part to share its story, burdens, and unmet needs.

  5. Invite Integration – negotiate new roles, fostering cooperation among parts and daily life practices that keep the system balanced.

When IFS Can Help

  • Childhood or complex trauma that still drives reactions
  • Harsh inner critic, perfectionism, or shame cycles

  • Anxiety spikes or depressive “shutdowns” that feel out of your control

  • Relationship patterns that repeat despite your best intentions

  • Creative or performance blocks where an inner protector hijacks momentum

Every part has a positive intent; IFS lets you harness that hidden wisdom.

Why Choose Attunigrate for IFS?

  • Whole‑Self Care. We already “blend traditional psychotherapy with intuitive, body‑based, and culturally attuned practices,” so parts‑work fits naturally into our framework.
  • East Meets West. Attunigrate is “where Eastern wisdom meets Western psychology,” adding breath‑body grounding to cognitive insight for deeper change.

  • Accessible & Secure. Sessions are offered virtually for Michigan residents via a private, HIPAA‑compliant platform—most major insurances accepted, with private‑pay flexibility.

  • Guided by Experience. Founder Nishani Jayawardena, LPC, NCC leads a culturally sensitive team that honors every client’s heritage and lived experience, ensuring each part feels safe to speak.

Ready to Lead Your Inner System?